I’m pregnant with my 4th, I’m thinking about an abortion. What to do?translated

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Hello. I'm confused and so is my husband. I think it’s pointless to consult with my friends, I’ll get even more confused, so I read on the Internet and, “passing what I read through myself,” I try to understand how I feel. I read the answer to the question I want a fourth child, but my husband is against it. What should I do? Yesterday the pregnancy was confirmed. My husband and I already have three children, all pregnancies were planned and desired. The last child is six years old. There were conversations with my husband that we don’t need any more children, because... and just all the same questions that you have in your answer. And to all these questions, both when it was just speculation, and now, when we found out about the pregnancy, our answer is “no.” On all of the above issues, it’s still not easy for us (I can’t say it’s very hard), but not even a solid four. I had protracted disagreements of a domestic nature with my husband for 3-4 years, now it seems to be better, but the foundation is not yet strong.

There is not enough time for anything, we are financially unstable, everything is not going smoothly with the older children, every time we spend our “last resources” (as it seems to me) to come to an agreement and resolve the problems and tasks of the family. My husband feels the same way. We both get tired, it affects the relationship...