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I’ll also say something to reassure you. St. Barsanuphius the Great answers one brother: if your elder is dissatisfied with resolving your confusion, you can, with his blessing, go to another who can resolve it; and when you know that he will not bear this, then do it secretly from him. However, this is not conciliar, but private; Of course, you do the same, seeking consolation and advice from others. I will also give you an example of the disciple who was sent by the elder to expel a strange elder living in their cell from his cell, because he was more glorified; but the disciple, having been sent three times, instead of expulsion, gave him affectionate greetings, through which later his elder reconciled and thanked the disciple for his prudence: then if you do not bring to your mother what can confuse and offend her, that is, the opinion and gossip of others, with a good intention, and not with tradition, you will not sin. If you find it beneficial, take these examples to your advantage. You might be interested in: