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I'm the only one who manages my grandmother and work. First time drinking. Is this the beginning of an addiction?translated

October 23, 2026 · 1 min read

Reader question:

I am 26 years old, and now I am going through a very difficult period. My grandmother is elderly, not feeling well and needs constant care. All responsibility for it lies with me. There is no moral or financial support. I was left completely alone. At work, I constantly encounter a cold and callous attitude, with the devaluation of my work. A few days ago I felt so bad that I drank alcohol, although I had never drank before and had always been a supporter of a sober lifestyle. Now I feel the urge to drink again, and I understand that this is not normal. What should I do?

Leah

Priest's answer:

Priest Victor NIKISHOV

God bless you!

The fact that you are drawn to drink again is already an addiction in its infancy. Alcohol provided temporary relief, and the brain remembered it. You need to be very careful with this. If you drink again to relieve stress, it can become a habit that is difficult to break.

You don't have to bear everything on yourself. Find some help. There are social services that help the elderly. There are patronage services. It may be possible to get your grandmother a disability or help at home. Contact social security. If grandma...

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