Since we cannot be properly reconciled without God’s help, and without spiritual peace our soul will perish, we must, if necessary, ask God for gracious help to restore spiritual peace; and in order to achieve this, you must certainly pray for the offender to the God of peace with the following words:
Lord, save and have mercy on Your servant (name of the rivers) and his saint. have mercy on me with your prayers!
After such a prayer, the offender himself will come to you first and ask you for forgiveness, and then, by the grace of the Holy Spirit, mutual peace of mind will be restored, and St. Our guardian angels rejoice, but demons envy and cry.