Read the canon for someone who interrupted his life without permission, if possible and willingly. For the first time, try to read 40 days daily. It is good to give alms to those in need for your son. Hope and faith are lamps in our lives. And the Lord is mercy and love. This is what we hope for [1, 480].
We send you a canon about someone who died without permission. Read this canon at home for 40 days every day, and read the prayer of Elder Leo of Optinsky about your mother all your life. Also give alms for your mother to those in need. Nothing more can be done. Even if someone gives you permission to pray in church, it will be to the detriment of both your mother and you, because no one can cancel the canons of the Church [1, 480-481].